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Love and Marriage and TV

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Sometimes my weekends are too long. My wife gets on my nerves or I get on hers. I’m afraid my job, which often finds me not talking to another soul for eight hours, has turned me into a bit of a lonely curmudgeon. And I’m starting to get used to it. I get uncomfortable around people, and I start avoiding social settings or just give off an unfriendly vibe. And unfortunately, this preference for seclusion includes my wife after a while.

Or maybe the media and roughly fifty percent of all married couple are right. We’re not built to be with another person co close for so long… that we all end up living like roommates or worse.

Louie has a failed marriage. I just started watching “Master of None” and the first episode is about the plight of being married and having a kid. I remember back in the 90s watching a show built on the worship of one’s spouse, “Mad About You.” I had a crush on Helen Hunt at the time. And (SPOILER) the couple eventually ends up divorcing on the last season.  They stuck together for six seasons; they were “Mad” about each other, only to end up as another failed marriage statistic. One of my favorite TV characters, Frasier, divorced his wife, Lilith. I enjoyed “Curb Your Enthusiasm” and come season six, same thing, Larry David ends up getting a divorce (again SPOILER). George Costanza was in an unhappy relationship until his fiancée died in an unfortunate envelope-licking tragedy (SPOILER!!!).

And it’s not just comedy. Don Draper had a couple of divorces. Walter White was trying to put a façade of a nice family life underneath a crumbling marriage. No one gets married for love on the “Game of Thrones.”

These are just a few shows off the top of my head that I happen to enjoy.

I think if you’re a TV couple and you’re not animated, you have a great chance of ending up divorced.

I don’t know if a study has been done on the subject before. I’m sure there are more shows with divorced or couples with troubled marriages now, but I would like to see how prevalent they are compared to married couples (who continue to be married). I would even count Al Bundy’s unhappy relationship with his family as somewhat “successful” compared to other relationships on television. Granted, Al’s life appears to be a bit of a nightmare, but I believe the lesson is that he sticks with it regardless of his marriage’s many dysfunctions. I wonder because I start thinking “are there more unhappy couples on TV, or are am I somehow more inclined to watch shows with unhappy couples?”

Now, I’m not saying my relationship is on a downward spiral. It’s settled to what I assume is the average experience cohabitating with another person.  I don’t think my relationship is any better than most married couples, nor is it any worse. I guess I’m modest like that. There’s just a bit of mixed emotions whenever I turn on the television sometimes.

“These people know exactly how I feel!”

“Oh shit! I’m gonna end up just like Louie!”

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Dental Fun

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If you have dental coverage, proper dental coverage, thank your stars.

I used to not think too much about it, but after being applied scare and sale tactics while sitting on a dentist’s chair, having procedures done that I might or might not have needed, paying an exorbitant amount for them, and having more procedures scheduled, I think it’s just as vital as proper medical coverage.

Technically, I have dental coverage… coverage that barely pays for anything. Sure, we’ll pay for your root canal, but your dental crown, which arguably is the most vital part of the procedure, is not covered. So much for that! And as for dental fillings… that’s not covered as well. So yeah… I got dental coverage only if I’m dying from something in my mouth.

Oh and when I said I had procedures that I might or might not have needed. I believe dentists here, much like regular psychologists, are incentivized to find problems even when there’s none. I went to get my teeth cleaned in the morning. I also had fillings done. The dentist was selling me another procedure to be done on a molar, but it was too expensive, so I opted out and decided I needed a second opinion.

I went to another dentist in the afternoon. They gave me a cheaper price for the procedure I needed. Perfect! However, the dentist said I had minor problem areas which needed to be filled and/or cleaned. This, after coming back from another dentist in the morning. The place was cheaper, but it’s still a tad shady.

And as for medical. South Korea has fifty percent medical coverage. It’s better than nothing, but definitely much more expensive than proper full coverage I used to enjoy back in Canada. South Korea is not like the United States, but medical procedures could certainly still cripple people financially.

I miss Canada.

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Let’s Make Little League a Tad Racist

I see what you did there, Huffington Post!

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 An hour or so later…

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I wonder who thought the first title was such a hot idea especially with all the race-related things happening in the US right now.

I really should stop giving the Huffington Post any more traffic. I’m sure I could find Kim Kardashian updates, side boobs, and non-news “news” somewhere else.

 

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More Dancing

Been pretty busy lately. So what’s the cure? More dancing perhaps.

And maybe some art. I’ve been loving Adventure Time.

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